Obama's Foreign Policy - Missile Shield

Here is the part of chat i had on Sep 20th, three days after, President Barack Obama announced to shelv the Bush-era plan for a missile shield to defend Eastern Europe:

Me: so how is obama doing
XXXXXXX: actually VERY good. He just relaxed tension of missile shield with Russia .. so that he can concentrate in middle east (and russia reciprocated with promising not putting missiles )
Me: so what is the tension with russia
XXXXXXX: ask Bush on what's missile shield
Me: i didnt ask that, [What] I asked what is tension with russia. I know what is missile shield. Here is what i read when reading between lines. He is being friendlier to enemies as he has no back bone and in process breaking bonds with friends
XXXXXXX: what enemies ?
Me: countries particularly - dont like US
XXXXXXX: russia is not Soviet Union since last 20 years
Me: so why tension?

The whole thing came to me back when I have heard the news yesterday, on Fox News that Russia test-launches new Intercontinental Ballistic Missiles. For the people who hated Fox as Whitehouse commanded. I have placed link from BBC too so read before discredit fox this time.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,276014,00.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/6700585.stm
Here is some for easy read:

Russia Test-Launches New Intercontinental Ballistic Missile. The new missile would modernize Russia's stockpile at a time of rising tensions with the West. The ICBM was fired from a mobile launcher at the Plesetsk launch site in northwestern Russia, and its test warhead landed on target about 3,400 miles away on the Far Eastern Kamchatka Peninsula, a statement from the Russian Strategic Missile Forces said.
President Vladimir Putin has repeatedly said Russia would continue to improve its nuclear weapons systems and respond to U.S. plans to deploy a missile defense system in Europe.First Deputy Prime Minister Sergei Ivanov said the ICBM, as well as a tactical cruise missile that also was tested Tuesday, can penetrate any missile defense system, Russian news agencies reported. "As of today, Russia has new (missiles) that are capable of overcoming any existing or future missile defense systems," ITAR-Tass quoted Ivanov as saying. "So in terms of defense and security, Russian can look calmly to the country's future."

This is as clear as text written, This is answer to US plans... and no matter what you put now, my missiles are good for existing or future defense system:

President Vladimir Putin has repeatedly said Russia would continue to
> improve its nuclear weapons systems and respond to U.S. plans to deploy a
> missile defense system in Europe
Russian news agencies
> reported. "As of today, Russia has new (missiles) that are capable of
> overcoming any existing or future missile defense systems

so basically, It proves that the Obama's action, going to Russia with white cloth to reduce THE TENSION is nothing but act of weak as i have mentioned. While in response Russia has flexed the muscle...

and another proof is that no body has dare to condemn... as they dare not.